Tuesday, May 27, 2008

Change....The only Constant!!!

Change..........is the only thing constant. I am sure you know this but still I felt like writing about this. May be how and when I realised this made a difference to me. Anyways being a taurean..... I dont like changes at all. Being a true taurean I get adapted to them. What I was thinking is this......that no matter how much we are in love with things, with people, with circumstances.....they are ought to change......because thats the only constant. It might be a contradictory thing to say but it happens. And sometimes changes are expected ones but most of the times they are unexpected and sudden. But being so much into the routine life............no one prefers them......because we become used to of our scheduled mechanized life and suddenly the system need change, the technology (present life) becomes obsolete and presses us to move on...........leaving the existing one aside..........I dont have anything specific in my mind as of now but there had been many such instances that made me realise....that change is one thing which can happen anytime with anybody........so we should learn to adapt to them instead of panic. It can be the little one like change in plans of a meeting, change in holiday plans, movie of anything like that.........it can be change in the technology...........or system.........anything but most of the times.................its disturbing and even if it is not we take it that way................and later we realise the actual effect...................good or bad......!!!!!!
It happens naturally also............and sometimes by choice. I have seen people adapting themselves thinking that its for better but actually their innerself never agrees to that. Sometimes its about people......thats very complicated because its easy to adapt to new machines thats materialistic......... but change in people and change in circumstances need inner strength to cope with and overcome. Your brain says that things are changed and you need to move on with them but your heart doesnt allows so..........and thats when the conflict comes......but whatever is the case that will happen what is ought to.....and fighting with innerself and increasing troubles will cause harm to oneself only so the faster we understand and introspect the easier it becomes.......because when the change happens in our life we prefer not to discuss anyways it doesnt makes a difference to others because its us who are effected.....so introspection and understanding is the key to adaptation and then we know that Life moves on.........and the show must go on.......!!!!

9 comments:

Chakoli said...

I love it man!!

change shud be be thr always...montonous life is very boring...:-))

welcome back...we got a change of post on ur space;-))

vijay said...

GM Jigyasa,

Change is something that is beyond anyones control & most generally resist it. its enjoyable in certain contexts & painful in certain others.

Do read " Who moved my cheese" if u have not read it. explains a lot .

vs

Sensitive:-) Jigyasa said...

@ Chaks

Yeah monotonous life is boring. Agreed!!

@ VS aka Vijay

Have had read the back some 3 years back.....may be will re-read it sometime. Thanks.

Keep Smiling:-)

Chakoli said...

and even viewing same post evryday to me on ur space is boring...;-))))

change it:-)))

Kaua said...

hey jigyasa,

whether u lyk it or not its bound to happen n dear evn though u initially u mite nt like it but mark my words eventually u will luv it n moreover nothing on this earth happens w/o a reason isnt it ? ;)

Sensitive:-) Jigyasa said...

@ Kaua

Nice to see you here after a long time though......and yes I agree changes are bound to happen thats why I said the only constant and then nothing happens without a reason......Agreed Madam!!

Keep Smiling!!

Vamsi said...

@ jigyasa,
nice post.

mahek said...

Wow,
Change is the only constant thing. And its the another name of flexibilty too. My friend always writes-Everything Alters me ,nothing changes me. THough I think that nothing could remain untouched by change.

keep writing.:))

vijay said...

hie,

was waiting 4 ur tag :))

vs